Can only women be virgins? Can a person only lose their virginity through penetrative, heteronormative intercourse? Sex arguably varies as much from partner to partner as it does from gender to gender, so, sexually active queer people can hardly be considered virginal. The issues and standards surrounding virginity are emotionally heavy for most people, to varying degrees. Unfortunately, women particularly are too often chastised every which way is their own unique reality. I always thought the first time was definitely going to hurt me — as a woman — but be a great experience for any potential male partner.
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There is no one definition of virginity. Others may define virginity as never engaging in vaginal penetration with a penis, despite having had other types of sex, including oral stimulation and anal penetration. Some people may no longer call themselves a virgin after engaging in anal penetration or penetration with a finger or sex toy. Others may reconsider their virginity status after receiving or giving oral stimulation.
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Ahh your first time. All rainbows and butterflies, birds chirping and soft lighting. Finally doing the deed with the one you love in a hotel in Amsterdam, after a day spent soaking in the sights and a romantic dinner at a five star restaurant. To each their own, and you know what? Except 50 Shades of Grey.
Maybe you did it in complete silence. Or maybe you had some music playing in the background that when you look back, makes the whole memory weirder. What follows are some things that you're never going to be able to un-read:. My first girlfriend loved John Mayer. I'm not gonna front, either.